I believe that one day we will be able to empathize with others experiences and see eye to eye. My latest release, Never The Same is about a middle-aged Police Chief whose struggling with grief from losing her best friend.
This is a city where you have to watch your words. People are very sensitive and uptight. I have learned through very awkward interactions. And I consider myself a very reserved person who tends to watch what I say careful. This city is VERY sensitive and should come with a warning label. Nobody tells you, … More Seattle: A very sensitive city
I first got up to 250 in the fall of 2013. At the ripe age of 20 I had reached my peak weight. It was due to being on medicine and also I ate a LOT of food and did literally no exercise for months. It caught up to me I was up 75 pounds … More Body Transformation: My history
Everyone is hosting these events. They all claim to foster a sense of community while the organizers pad their pockets. I grew up selling ice cream and candy when I was a teenager and respect the hustle. What I can’t respect is the deception and unauthentic nature of what’s happening in Seattle. People are being … More The Seattle Grifter Economy
Our whole childhood was shaped by trauma. We were young when 911 happened. We saw the buildings fall. Several years later the economy toppled like the Twin Towers in 2008 when a young man was more likely to be shot by an active shooter than getting hired at a fast food job. It would be … More Generation Pan: Why Millennials Never Grew up!
I have been told by so many people that height doesn’t matter. It’s a comforting delusion that we could all believe if we never wanted to date again for the rest of our lives. I come from this from a very humble and unentitled perspective. Just an average height guy (5’9.5) whose been told all … More Height Supremacy: Size matters
How did we get here? Apparently so many men have been lying about their height that they now have height verification technology. Could this change online dating forever? As someone whose been apart of the hellscape known as American online dating I can say that height isn’t everything. However it’s most definitely important. Men wouldn’t … More Height Verification on online dating?
I am currently reading a really good action romance book. It has everything that makes you not able to put it down. As a novelist I can say the author is a better writer than I am. However there’s a problematic element. One of the main characters forces consent and the other character is okay … More The Problematic Romance Dilemma
I am reading a 5 star romance action thriller. The plot and pacing is superb. But yet AWLI. Another White Love Interest. I have had several crushes in my life and they were usually with or head over heels for a White guy. They could have been any ethnicity black or other but this fact … More Another White Love Interest
You know it’s crazy I have never truly thought that the West Coast would be AntiBlack. The media’s perception is that this is a place where Black people are seen as equals to all else. But the truth is startling especially in dating. If a Black person is straight and also monogamous they have very … More Seattle’s AntiBlack Dating Culture
Online you see the word incel, gets thrown around like it’s nothing. We live in a society where wanting a traditional monogamous relationship like the ones our parents had will get you labeled everything but a child of God. Young men have been catching nothing but backlash online and offline for wanting heteronormative family dynamics. … More The Death of Monogamy
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